Hoping the grass will grow

Over the course of the summer my backyard, most of it, has been transformed from weedy suburban wilderness to yard of hope and promise. (And still some weeds.)

Back in June I paid a local tree service to cut down the weedy mulberry and slippery elm trees and grind out the stumps that could be ground away. The ones that remain, too close to the house or garage for grinding, I'll be poisoning, salting and hacking at for the next five years, if I keep at it. 

This week, landscapers removed the old broken fence, lots of tall weeds and some very dead grass and graded, tilled and generally cleaned up the soil. There are new empty beds along the neighbor's fence and the back boundary of the yard, where someday, when I find a contractor, I will have a new back fence. In the middle there's a large area seeded with new grass. 

The last thing the landscapers did before they left for the day was to hand me a sheet of instructions for watering new grass. It's all up to me now. I am to water the new seed for five to ten minutes morning and evening until the seeds germinate, which could take 5 days, the paper says, or 30. After that there's a lot of watchfulness and judgement as the grass grows, and maybe one mowing before winter comes. 

I've been kind of worried about this part. I can remember to do something night and morning without fail for at most four or five days. Currently I am remembering to take a dose of Paxlovid every morning and evening after a recent positive covid test. This is not hard to remember to do because the stuff works great. Also, the bitter, metallic taste in my mouth, a common side-effect of the drug, is with me constantly. I'm counting the doses until I'm done. 

There are no such sensory cues for remembering to water the grass. The pots of zinnias and petunias on my patio tell me with a look that they need water, and bless them, they manage to recover even when I've let them go until they're drooping and dry. But the grass seed just lies there. And watering it requires stepping carefully through the mud as I move the sprinkler from the middle of the back yard to the position needed to water the side yard. I have designated a pair of muddy flip-flops for this operation and I have a new $40 sprinkler from Amazon with adjustable nozzles and guides, but no good overall strategy. 

But once it's going, it is nice to sit and watch the water go back and forth. I think about the green that will fill my yard next spring, and the new prairie flowers and grasses I'll plant along the fences. 

There is work to do, weeds to be dealt with in other corners of my property. My overgrown lilac bush needs some thoughtful pruning. And what about that basketball hoop? The torn net hanging from the hoop has been known to attract gold finches and hummingbirds. They hang there briefly before flying off to find real food. Should I hang a bird feeder from the hoop instead?

 It is an achingly beautiful and fragrant summer morning. The crickets creak on, not yet silent in the sun. A tiny, odd bit of something glitters in the sun shining low on the cement patio. The birds are somewhere else this morning, two or three backyards down the block. 

Yesterday on a late afternoon walk I startled a whole flock of goldfinches out of a bush next to a house on my west-east path. Or rather, it was they who startled me--so small, so yellow and so many. Their excited chirping was decidedly different from the house sparrows I'm used to in the morning. 

I read Better Living Through Birding, by Christian Cooper, recently, and also installed the Merlin Bird ID app on my phone. You hit the button on the app and it listens and records the sounds around you. Bird names pop up. I got an unusually long list this morning (five possibilities) but the persistence crickets are creating interference. Meanwhile I hear a phone alarm going off across the street as a neighbor leaves for work or school. There's a plaintive sound coming from something that I can't see high in the maple tree, while a squirrel on a low bough has fixed his attention on the tree's trunk. He's been completely still for several minutes, stretched from tail to chin to nose. What's he watching for? A juicy insect? A small bird? Something else that's alive? Me walking around the base of the tree bothers him (her?) not at all, though now he's found a new position, alert but upside down on the tree's central trunk. I do not have his patience, this morning, maybe not ever. He watches, I search for words. 

And now he's gone where I can't see. 

Cat on the fence

The black cat is back. 

I don't know that he (she?) ever really goes away, but I haven't seen him since early in the summer. As I settled in this morning, outside with my coffee, my computer, my books and my chair cushion, I looked to my right and saw the cat draped on the fence that separates my yard from my neighbor's. I've seen him there before. What an odd resting place, I thought. 

Sometimes, when I've left the chair cushions out overnight with no concern for rain, I come out in the morning and find grayish-black cat hair on the cushion. If I'm awake very early, I may even find the cat, who looks back at me and abandons the chair slowly. I suppose it's yours, he seems to say. That hasn't happened this summer--I'm rarely out before 8. 

Today the cat is on the fence, and while I was wondering what it must be like to relax and rest and balance on that horizontal board that runs across the top of the fencing, I saw my friend stretch his neck a little bit forward and down. He's watching something. He's hunting, lying in wait for a mouse--or something else--to come out from under the leaves in the garden bed below. When he springs into action that pile of rounded fur on the fence will suddenly have swift legs and a curving tail for balance. I keep watching— I don't want to miss this.

Someone walks past on the sidewalk to my left, a full backyard away from the cat on the fence. There's a stroller and a dog and enough noise that the cat turns his head and trains his green-amber eyes on the intrusion. A car goes past and he looks this way again and then turns his head ever so slightly to stare at me. Or so it seems. He's glassy-eyed and has the advantage here; I can't be sure where he's looking, but I know that he knows that I'm watching him. And he doesn't care. I'm a large human. What am I going to do? Leap across 40 feet of backyard weeds to grab or frighten him?

But it's a long wait. The last swallow of coffee in my cup is cold. He gets up, he stretches, arched-back, full-on cat pose, tail reaching high. Is he done for the morning? Not yet. He settles back down with renewed attention to the foliage below. This time his long tail hangs down this side of the fence. Do tails fall asleep and get tingly, like human feet curled under the sitter? When will the long wait be too long?

A few minutes ago my eyes veered to the left to watch a pair of birds rise up and curl around the peak of my house's roof and then circle into the top of the maple on the corner. Large birds, hawks, I thought -- the Cooper's Hawk pair known to live in the neighborhood. (Thing you learn on Facebook!) I saw them in bare trees last spring, an adult and a juvenile. The brown and white stripes on their wedged tail feathers, stretched and rounded out for flight, are easy to see even at a distance. The arrogance of predators. 

Sparrows have been gathering on the utility wires two and three yards away. I haven't seen any in my yard. They'll stay a safe distance from this persistent, patient cat, who is still there on the fence, almost an hour later. How long must one wait for action below? Has he nothing better to do?

"I see you"

As I came outside early this morning with my coffee, a bright red male cardinal flew at me and landed on the other side of the mesh patio table, just four feet away. He looked even more startled than I was at our sudden proximity and quickly retreated to the lilac bush by the back stairs. 

But he looked back at me. I smiled. 

"I see you," I said. "I see you."

The bird again took flight, this time ducking under the broad leaves of the grapevine that drapes lushly over the ancient chain-link fence that divides our yard from the municipal sidewalk. He hopped along, going in and out, hide-and-seek, looking for something to eat. Maybe some bugs? It's July, so the grapes are still green and hard; he'll be back in September. Finally he made his exit, flying back across my field of vision, to the neighbor's fence and on down the block. 

You can't help but celebrate that bright cardinal red whenever you spot one. And they're not hard to spot. Just now another one sat on the telephone wire; it was a little paler, a little less grown-up, but still not to be missed. 

It may be trite, it may be a little silly — but I let cardinals, the bright red male ones, remind me of my son Kris and his spirit. A little visit from the beyond? If I say so, then yes, it is. 

The summer Kris died I watched a pair of cardinals build a nest in the tangled vines a few feet up from where I sit to read and drink coffee in the morning. The female pulled strips of bark from the grapevine to line the nest. The male brought her food as she sat on the eggs; he sometimes took a turn there as well. I saw little beaks pop up to be fed, and worried and watched intently one Sunday afternoon as a vulnerable fledgling, urged on by bird sounds all around, gathered strength and good sense to hop and fly to shelter in the shrubbery. 

The blog posts I wrote in July 2017 are here and here. A couple years later, re-reading those posts, I saw that I had been writing not just about parenting and raising children but also about letting them go. By the end of July we'd let Kris go -- not that we could have stopped him. After his three-year battle with ALS he found eternal shelter in God's heavenly love, peace and grace. 

So yes -- the sudden appearance of a bright red cardinal, upfront and close, on a Sunday morning is bound to remind me of Kris, to feel like a cheerful visit from him. "I see you, I do."

Image by Megan Zopf from Pixabay

Sunrise

Dandy1022, CC BY-SA 4.0, via Wikimedia Commons

The sun just rose over the roof of the house across the street. It hit me in the face, and I smiled back. It shines on the front side of all the things between us two -- the striped hostas at the base of the fence, the floating leaves of the grapevine, the tree trunks, the potted petunias. 

Later today it will be hot and noisy. There'll be bees in the garden and cars in the street, things to take care of, decide, do. Now, it's bird conversations, cool air, tall, silent trees. 

I woke up at 5 this morning. Keeping my mind clear enough to go back to sleep seemed futile. My phone said it was still a few minutes before sunrise. Opportunity! What does sunrise look like on a day so close to the summer solstice? I sometimes see the sun rise in December. But what about now, today?

What to do with the bonus time in the morning? Finish the novel I've been reading — "Drive Your Plow Over the Bones of the Dead," by Olga Tokarczuk, a Polish writer and Nobel Prize winner — and then shake off its world in the light of day. The book is a murder mystery of sorts, set in Poland on a plateau near the border with the Czech Republic, far from Illinois -- seven hours ahead. The sun there is already at the top of the sky and soon heading back down. 

Light shining recalls last week at my church -- five mornings of Vacation Bible School for children from preschool through age 10. I was not a volunteer at the crafts or snacks or Bible story station. I was there for just the first 15 minutes each day, playing an astronaut (improbably, against type) in the opening skit. This is where friendship with the Children's Ministry Coordinator will take you. My character Mickey Wey had some issues throughout the week. And the solutions, Monday through Friday, were always a variation on "shine Jesus' light" into good news or bad. 

Our relationship with the sun's light is so elemental. Smack, it hit me in the face this morning. (I've heard it rises like that every morning.) It's the same sun that ruled over my childhood summers. Of course it figures into our efforts to grasp and understand reality beyond ourselves, along with the basic rhythms of life. Stones, sundials, carvings from ancient civilizations show the sacred power of the sun and its light. "Shine Jesus' light" is a good metaphor. It works, no matter how old you are. It tells you a lot about how to live as a follower of Jesus.

It's almost 7. My wake-up alarm will go off any minute now. The sun's been up for almost two hours. It's still shining at me through the maple tree on the corner, but the early morning magic has faded. In a half hour or so it will be above the trees and I'll need to tilt the patio umbrella to shield my eyes and my computer screen from the glare. It won't be shining golden light into the nooks and crannies of plants my world view, but it will shine down on a busy Saturday's chores, shopping, recreation. 

The narrator — the unreliable narrator — of "Drive Your Plow, etc." is an astrologer. She looks to the angles and motion of planets crossing one another's influence to find truth and direction about human fate, as well as to discover the date of her own death. Astrology, the casting of horoscopes, has elaborate rules. They're stated with authority in the novel, but the mind glazes over these as you read them -- at least mine did, with no grounding in the subject. The stories created from the rules, however -- well, they are the story, sometimes truthful, sometimes not. 

Much of the novel takes place at night. There are warm, loving human encounters and dark, drunken violent ones. That's part of what drove me out of bed this morning -- I wanted to read the resolution to that unreliable story-telling not while drifting off to sleep, but in the morning light, . 

Shine the light.

Pentecost 2023

"Birdsong. Inspirited."

I wrote this on a page in my notebook this morning, as I drank my coffee outside at the patio table.

Today was another perfect May day--clear skies, warm but not hot. And oh, so quiet at 8am. Yet in the silence, birds, one chip-chip-chipping from the tree near my chair, others whistling more melodic tunes down the block. Like a fourth dimension of being. The sun was still low in the sky, lighting up the undersides of leaves and branches and shining warmly into my face. 

"Inspirited," I wrote on the page, and then, not sure if this was really a word, I looked it up in the dictionary app on my phone. 

        Inspirit: to infuse with spirit. Syn. spirit up.

Spirit up. It's the day for it--Pentecost. Or should that be Spirit down? As in descending onto the disciples' heads in tongues of fire?

I went to church, sang the hymns -- including two big 16th-century Lutheran chorales, "Creator Spirit, Heavenly Dove" and "Come, Holy Ghost, God and Lord" that I'm always surprised to discover are two different hymns. Perhaps we should just sing the ancient "Veni, Creator Spiritus" and be done with it. 

Honestly, I didn't need tongues of fire, the rushing wind, Peter's sermon from Acts, or even Jesus in the upper room. But the great blue heron I saw fly overhead while stopped at a stoplight as I drove to church?

Spirit up!

"I always think ... "

It's been two months since I've published a post here at the Perverse Lutheran. A long time. I've had thoughts and ideas, but they've evaporated quickly, helped along by the glare of self-criticism. 

So I'm trying "Random on a Tuesday" this morning and making a commitment (well, about 85 percent) to hitting publish, no matter what. (Please, dear reader, accept my apologies.)

1. It's almost 10 a.m. I've been awake since 6. I had my morning coffee but it did not prevent me from dozing off while reading, around 8:30 a.m. Such a pleasant feeling, floating from sleep to wakeful and back again, on a morning in May, in a patio chair under a hazy blue sky, birds chipping and chirping in the bushes, cradled by green, lilac-y fragrance.

2. This is the problem with blogging lately. Item #1 was the one single thought I had as I started this post, and it was worth only two sentences. 

3. I've been very busy directing a junior high musical production of "The Music Man Jr." It's my third time directing this in one version or another. One of my favorite moments comes near the end of the show, when Harold Hill, confronted by a boy who needed to believe in him, must tell the truth and confess to being a liar and a crook. But he tells the kid he's a great kid and that's why he wanted him in the band. 

"What band?" says Winthrop. 

Liar? Crook? Hill reveals something more about himself: "I always think there's a band, kid." 

He can't quite make it come to pass, but still he has a dream. Every time, he believes. 

4. "I always think there's a play, kid." That's where I find myself. Conjuring kids' school plays into existence, I feel seven years old again, or ten, with a grand vision of something I'm trying to turn into reality, usually against all practicality. A child’s dream. Will they believe with me? Rehearsals look like I'm in command. I'm organized. I plan. I have a spreadsheet. I tell my cast to count off by seven and move them around in groups following the circles and arrows in my notes. And I wonder if anyone can see what I see. And why would they?  

5. In plays we play together. We agree to do this and we hope to bring the audience along. Read a novel and you enter a world constructed in one author's head, its own reality. I just finished reading a novel called "Users" whose main character is a designer of virtual reality experiences that evolve and call on users to contribute content which is then shared in other users' experiences. (Think Twitter or Facebook as VR.) The protagonist is selfish. He doesn't just interact with people. He plans how to get what he needs from his wife and daughters and co-worker. His relationships are superficial and a mess. Near the end comes a reminder that we can't ever really know what it's like to be someone else. His teenage daughter's reaction: well, duh. 

6. But I’m always interested in what it’s like to be someone else, or to be inside their experience. Or interested in what they say about it. If I breathe just the right way, can I duplicate their experience in my body and brain?

7. Which reminds me to write something more about being present on this fine May day. Morning has turned to early afternoon and now to late afternoon. There's an electrician running a grounding line in the basement for the solar panels on the roof. Electricity went out in the bathroom for a while. And I just picked up three more novels from the library. 

8. What I was reading when I dozed off earlier this morning was a new translation of the writings of Julian of Norwich. Time to pick it up again.